女朋友要分手了，怎么办

小叶最近总是苦恼不已，工作上也是忙得不得了。刚好赶上大项目，交期紧客户要求也高，本来就已经很紧张了，结果，团队中又有两个人提出离职，人手就更加紧张。驾校那边催促催促得不得了。老早就报名了，一直没有时间去。学车这个事情就像同事说的，在我们公司这么忙，基本上大概是很少有时间能够做自己的事情。这次是没办法，必须要去学，不然，几千块钱的报名费可能就要白白费了。所谓屋漏，偏逢连阴雨。女朋友，小棉最近这几天也是跟我闹分手，怎么办？

小叶是去年才晋升的高级项目经理，怎么说呢，工作努力吧，人也长得帅气。女朋友小棉，是去年刚毕业的大学生，有貌有才，同在一家公司，同在一个项目。朝夕相处，就这样，就在一起。项目经理，这个工作呀，真的是太忙了。现在又是带着大项目，然后外加上要练车。昨天3月7号，说好的要陪小棉一起过这个，过一个浪漫的女生节，最后等来的就是小棉分手很平静的。其实也没有什么。就是昨天说好的一起出去吃个饭，看个电影。吃完饭了，电影票都买好了，准备去看电影的时候啊。无奈出了点状况，影响正常的生产进度。作为项目经理的，小叶责无旁贷要赶回公司，就紧急召集供应链的人来处理这个异常。

没时间陪女朋友

唐人街探案三，有时候我在想啊，女朋友分手是不是就不是因为唐人街探案三。结尾那个小女孩跟她的妈妈被抛弃这个情节太烦了，女孩都是软心肠，看电影估计被刺激了。要不然小棉不是不了解我的工作，也不是不了解我现在的状况，怎么能因为没有一起去看一场电影就跟我提分手了，未免太小题大做了。这一点都不支持我的工作吗？如果长期这样子，那还怎么相处？两个以后结婚了还怎么搞？

分手了？

烦恼的很，大家都在一个公司上班，也没法跟同事说一下，只有在学车的时候跟车友们一起吐槽一下。结果秋秋就批评我了，你以为女朋友找你分手，那就是真的是因为你没有陪她吃顿饭，没有送他一个礼物，没有陪她看一场电影，这一件小事吗？搞错啦，不是这样子。一个杯子，一个鱼池，空着的时候往里面放水的时候也不会溢出。但是因为长年累月在往里面装水，快满的时候轻轻洒一点就溢出来了。你看看你自己，你好好想一想。就你这个工作状态，就你这个生活的节奏，有多少次还记得女朋友的生日？记得这些节假日？然后陪女朋友一起吃早餐，一起看电影，一起逛街。自己想想，有多少次惹女朋友生气了？

真的很烦

说的其实是挺对的。我和小棉可以说是算得上郎才女貌。可是啊，我们都觉得时间不够用。这家公司除了加班还是加班，周末也没有去哪里，也没去哪里玩过，也没有逛街，也没有看电影。当初相遇的一些激情和浪漫，很快变为平淡的生活，平淡的加班生活。这下子，小叶真的是着急了。忙不迭地问，秋秋姐到底该怎么办啊？秋秋反问，你刚才不是还在说小棉因为一件小事闹离婚不懂事吗？不支持你工作吗？现在想问怎么办呢？这个真实的其实是不满的情绪，各种长期积累下来的不满意，就像那个鱼缸的水一样的装的太满了，要溢出来了。这个解铃还需系铃人，你要想都装这么多了，那你能怎么办？是要继续把水龙头拧开往里面增加水呢，还是说把塞子打开，让鱼缸里面的这些不满意的这些水呀，先流一些出去呢？

时间不够用

小叶啊，恍然大悟似的，生活中总是不可避免地会承认存在一些一些不满或者不能够满足下面要求的，但是我们可以想办法去让存在积累下来的这些不满意减少一点。怎么说啊？小叶也是出色的项目经理，这关系管理还是非常有一套的，想想那些客户啊，礼物吃饭、电话微信轮番来。再刁蛮古怪的客户，这种360的关怀，慢慢就柔顺了。何况是爱我的小棉呢，现在就行动，现在给她打个电话，虽然抽不出固定的时间，或者是说大片的时间来陪她，但是我相信只要有时间只要有机会任何时候任何场地我都能够想办法向小棉表达我的关心和爱，尽量让她的不满意水位越来越低。

质量就在我们身边，很多的时候我们遇到了一些事情啊，他其实不是我们所看到的表面上的这些事，而是这些事儿背后所代表的一种情绪。这种情绪上的问题啊，就有一个累积的效应。我们要想办法不定期的消除这种情绪的累积，慢慢的才不会因为一个点而爆发到没有任何的挽救措事。这个就叫过程管理，预防为主，提前识别问题的核心，做有针对性的行动措施。

ENGLISH VERSI

Xiao Ye is always depressed recently, and his work is also very busy. Recently, I took on a big project, the delivery date was urgent, and the customer's requirements were also high, so I was very nervous. However,There are two members of the team proposed to leave, which made the human resources more tense. What's more,he driving school has been urging me to practice, but I never have time to go. Just like what my colleagues said, I am so busy in our company that I have little time to do my own things. I can't help it this time, and I have to go to practice, otherwise, the thousands of yuan of registration fee may be wasted. Misfortunes never come singly. My girlfriend is also angry with me recently. What should I do?

Xiao ye was a senior project manager who was promoted last year. He works hard and is very handsome.Girlfriend Xiao Mian is a college student who just graduated last year.They're talented, they're in the same company, and they're in the same project.They worked together day after day and fell in love.The project manager is too busy with his work.Now he works on big projects and takes time off to learn how to drive.Yesterday, March 7, they made appointment to accompany Xiao Mian together to celebrate the romantic girl's day, but finally he get the feedback of breakup. Nothing special, just yesterday they agreed to go out to dinner and see a movie.After dinner, they bought movie tickets, and ready to go to the movies.But there is something wrong, affecting the normal production schedule.As the project manager, Xiaoye was duty-bound to rush back to the company and call in the supply chain to deal with this anomaly.

Sometimes I wonder if the breakup was about Chinatown Detective Three.It was so sad at the end when the little girl and her mother were abandoned.Girls are softhearted. Maybe Xiao Mian get moved.Otherwise, it's not because she doesn't know his job and his current situation. How can she say goodbye to just because they didn't go to see a movie together? It's really a storm in a teacup.Doesn't support my work at all?If this is the case for a long time, how can they get along? How to get married two later?

Very tired. they work in the same company, so he can't tell his colleagues about it. He only tell his fellow drivers when he is learning to drive.As a result, Qiu criticized me: Do you think that your girlfriend broke up with you just because you didn't accompany her to have a meal, give her a gift, or watch a movie?It's not like that.When you pour water into an empty glass, it will not overflow.But because of years of filling it with water, when it was nearly full, it overflowed with a little sprinkle.Please reflect yourself, and think about it.How many times do you remember your girlfriend's birthday, given your work status, given your pace of life?Remember the holidays?Then have breakfast with girlfriend, go to a movie together, and go shopping together.Think about it. How many times have you made your girlfriend angry?

That's actually quite true.Me and cotton can be said to be a beauty and a beauty.But we both feel we don't have enough time.We didn't go anywhere on the weekend except to work overtime. The passion and romance at the beginning soon became into a flat life, flat overtime life.Now, I am really worried.I busily asked exactly how to do?Qiuqiu asked back, you just said that because of a small matter, she want to breakup is not sensible?Don't support your work?In fact, it is the dissatisfaction accumulated for a long time, just like the water in the fish tank, which is too full to overflow.It takes someone to tie the bell.What can we do?Is it to continue to turn the faucet into the inside to increase water, or to open the plug get the water out?

Xiao Ye suddenly realized.It is inevitable that there will be some dissatisfaction or unmet requirements in life, but we can find ways to reduce the accumulated dissatisfaction.Xiao Ye is an excellent project manager, so he is good at relationship management.For unscrupulous and eccentric customers, after 360's care, they slowly become compliant.Let alone girlfriend who loves me.Take action now and call her now. Although I can't spare a fixed time or a large amount of time to accompany her, I believe I can try my best to express my care and love to her at any time and in any venue as long as I have time and opportunity, and try my best to make her dissatisfaction level lower and lower.

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